LUSYD LOVES
Heart & Womb Healing for Couples with Syd & Lucinda Loves
Aloha e nā ipo!
— Beloved ones, we greet you with love!
At LUSYD LOVES, we guide couples into a journey of reconnection, intimacy, and embodied love.
We know relationships can go through seasons of distance, stress, or disconnection. Sometimes passion fades. Sometimes communication breaks down. Sometimes old wounds or unspoken resentments get in the way of true intimacy.
✨ Our work creates a safe, sensual, and healing space for couples to release tension, rediscover passion, and remember what it feels like to be fully present with one another.
Is This You?
You crave deeper intimacy but feel like something is blocking the flow between you.
You want to reignite the spark of passion that once felt effortless.
You love your partner, but you feel stuck in cycles of tension, conflict, or emotional distance.
You long for a safe, guided space to explore tantra, sensual connection, and embodied love.
You want to create not just a relationship, but a living sanctuary of intimacy, presence, and joy.
If this resonates, our work is designed for you.
What We Offer Couples
Couples Healing Journeys
Private sessions with both Syd & Lucinda, guiding you as a couple through:
Conscious touch and tantric connection practices
Breathwork and synchronized breathing
Eye gazing and presence exercises
Sound healing and music immersion
Somatic release work to clear old blocks and wounds
Luxury Couples Retreats
For couples ready to dive deeper, we curate immersive weekend retreats designed around your desires and intentions. Each retreat is custom-built, combining modalities such as:
Tantra-inspired intimacy practices
Healing bodywork
Vibrational sound journeys
Far-infrared and vibroacoustic technologies
Nourishing sensory experiences (touch, aroma, sound, and movement)
Your investment scales the experience. Whether intimate and simple, or expansive and luxurious, we design a journey that meets your vision.
Meet Your Practitioners
Lucinda Loves
With 13 years as a tantrika, medicine facilitator, and breathwork guide, Lucinda embodies a nurturing, sensual, and deeply feminine presence. She creates a sanctuary where couples feel safe to soften, reconnect, and rediscover passion.
Syd Loves
Syd brings 4 years as a daka, 10+ years of experience as a sound healer, medicine facilitator, and certified breathwork guide. Through bodywork, sound, and presence, he amplifies energy in the body, guiding couples into states of release, intimacy, and renewal.
Together as LUSYD LOVES
As a duo, Syd and Lucinda bring harmony of masculine and feminine, guiding couples into profound intimacy and love.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Do we need prior experience with tantra, meditation, or breathwork to work with you?
A: Not at all. Many couples arrive as complete beginners. We guide you step by step in a safe, supportive way, meeting you exactly where you are.
Q: What happens in a session?
A: Each session is unique, but often includes breathwork, guided meditation, sound healing, and somatic practices to release tension and open deeper intimacy. We also integrate conversation, reflection, and practical tools you can take home with you.
Q: Is this for couples only, or can individuals join?
A: While much of our work is centered around couples who wish to deepen intimacy and connection, we also welcome individuals. You may choose to work with us together, experiencing a balance of healthy masculine and feminine energy, or book a solo session with either of us individually. Each path is designed to support you exactly where you are.
Q: How do you ensure safety and consent?
A: Consent is foundational. Every step is guided by your comfort, with regular check-ins to make sure you feel safe and respected. Nothing is ever done without clear agreement.
Q: What if my partner and I are at different comfort levels?
A: This is very common. We create a space where both partners can move at their own pace. You’ll never be pressured to go further than you’re ready for.
Q: How do we get started?
A: Simply fill out the application form . From there, we’ll review your responses and reach out to schedule a consult call, where we’ll explore if this path feels right for you both.
Testimonials
I received a healing session from Sydney, I was not sure what to expect but I went in with an open heart and an open mind. Prior to this I had never received body/healing work from a man. I have a long history of sexual abuse and trauma and I never felt safe enough to be vulnerable to allow myself to receive massages or healing touch from anyone other than my previous partners. I went through a recent divorce and I am currently in an intentional celibacy phase. I was called to listen to my intuition and face any fears, discomforts or preconceptions that I held and I allowed myself to fully receive Sydney's healing massage. This session turned out to be more that I could have ever expected. We started out with tantric breathwork and eye gazing which allow me to drop into my heart and body to become fully present. He took me through an expansive sound healing journey while I was lying in the comfort of a heated vibrating massage bed. He also provides headphones that are synced with the massage table and that in itself is soothing and healing. Sydney is gentle, kind, open hearted, respectful, present, vulnerable and gets consent for every action involved in the healing process. He embodies divine safe masculine energy. I felt seen, heard, celebrated and first and foremost SAFE. He actively checks in with you throughout the entire session and he speaks life-giving positive affirmations into your heart. I was able to fully relax and receive the soul medicine that my body, mind and spirit were calling in. I didnt realize how much I needed this practice. I felt layers of guarded energy falling away, I was able to let my walls down and this is something I once thought was impossible being in such a vulnerable state. The session was involved and multilayered with every action executed with the upmost care. It was private, sacred and endearing. The next morning I woke up feeling like a new woman, there was a palpable difference in my belly/womb area. It was like I shed the energetic protective layer that I had been holding onto for most of my life. I say all this to say my session with Sydney was POTENT. If you decide to book a session with him set the intention to get out of your head and allow the healing to take place. Keep your heart open and you will receive the magic. I was there to do the inner work to be a willing participant in my healing and that is a great recipe for real results.
- Angela
My experience Working with Lucinda & Sydney was an incredibly transcendant experience of remembrance, surrender & flow. From the moment you arrive to the closing ceremony of the container, everything is curated & custom-tailored to making you feel beyond comfortable, accepted and welcomed & your experience perfect with these two cosmically entangled beings here to help open the hearts, minds & souls to how life can really be felt & experienced in a deeper more sensual & spiritually connected loving way. Working with a couple for the first time experience with tantric healing was an incredibly intimidating idea initially & yet immediately upon arrival they were able to make me feel fully comfortable to receive the medicines of the healings I was meant to experience during the course of my 2.5 day stay. I never felt unsafe with Lucinda & Sydney because they are so deeply rooted in who they are and the work they are here to offer & because of the deeply healing and safe sanctuary they've created in their home & in their unions frequency that can be felt on a visceral level when you're around them... and this reminder that we deserve to live & love like this- is priceless in and of itself. I had no idea what to expect however | left with so much more than I knew I would! These two are worth their weight in gold and then some... I feel more myself than l've felt in a long long time. A lot was purged, and a lot was received as well. Thank you thank you thank you. All the love and praises to these beauties.
- Samantha
Sydney’s heart & womb healing session was a gentle & profoundly transformative journey that truly surpassed all of my expectations. From the moment I stepped into the space, I felt softness & curiosity in myself, enveloped in a nurturing cocoon that was carefully curated with soothing sounds and aromatics. Sydney’s unwavering presence was a warm, guiding light throughout the experience, gently & naturally opening my being to relax with a strong sense of connection and support. He never wavered in his connection to my feelings—even when parts of me wanted to hide, he stayed present.
I appreciated his calm enthusiasm to be right there with me, which created a sense of trust, allowing me to soften, surrender, and melt into each moment more deeply, eventually accessing emotional memories I didn’t know I still had stored in my womb. Through the session, I was transported back to the very day of my birth, embracing vulnerability and surrendering to the process with complete ease. Sydney handled this delicate moment with the utmost care, integrity, and appreciation, ensuring that I felt secure and held throughout. This transformative experience left me feeling reborn, with a newfound appreciation for my own life’s journey, and an overwhelming sense of gratitude for Sydney’s profound healing gift coming into my life at the most needed time.
Having moved in with Sydney and his beloved partner, Lucinda, a year before my first session, I have been privileged to witness their daily lives in the most intimate way. It is clear to me that they are truly people of love and integrity, with hearts wide open and a love that radiates unconditionally. Witnessing Sydney’s treatment of Lucinda with the utmost respect and adoration has been heartwarming, and he extends this honorable regard to me as well. This personal insight into their relationship only amplifies the authenticity and sense of safety I want to convey about Sydney’s healing work.
I can wholeheartedly attest that his passion for honoring the feminine and his genuine care for others make him a remarkable soul, a rare gem, and a gifted practitioner who has touched my life in the most profound way. I write this two months after my first session, and I can see the difference in my life—in my choices, in my nervous system. I cherish the transformation he has facilitated within me, and will always take the opportunity to share my assurance with sisters who need someone to trust and support them on their womb healing journey.
I am forever grateful for what Sydney and Lucinda do for my life.
-Robyn
I recently had the honor of a Tantric session with Syd and Lucinda. This was a new experience for me, and was after a period of my life filled with grief and dealing with soul-loss/disassociation. The session I had with them was intensely powerful, beautiful, sensual, mystical and empowering. It re-ignited my connection with my own body which has since allowed me to reconnect with my beloved husband on a more intimate level. I can't wait to share the experience with him! I had not felt the energy of my own sexuality, the connection to my own beauty in quite some time, and the treatment with them brought it all back. The next day I found myself walking brighter, more present, more alive in my own skin. They have created a sanctuary for exploring and nourishing the magic of ourselves and the importance of staying aligned with our sensuality. I am forever grateful. In the few days since my session, I have continued to nurture the Light they helped me reconnect to, and have felt myself strut again!
- Melissa
My session with Syd & Lucinda was extremely healing. I was going through a break up and experienced so much relief of a broken heart from the synergy of the love he offers through his embodiment of love in these powerful sessions. They are both very intuitive & energetically sensitive as well as comfortable in their bodies, which made me feel comfortable & full of ease. We laughed a lot & I even cried. It was the first time I had been held by a divine masculine in this way and found it to be very activating of what I do desire in a conscious loving relationship. Following my session I had incredible insights & breakthroughs in multiple areas of my life. Thank you Syd & Lucinda for sharing your potent gift. I consider anyone who receives from you very blessed. I am forever grateful.
-KC
The session I received with Syd and Lucinda was absolutely divine, filled with so much love and healing for me. I was able to relax deeper than I have since my last breakup 9 months ago. I was able to access a level of pleasure that I so deeply desired. Their loving touch allowed my body to truly open. The multi-sensory experience of sound, touch, vibrations, affirmations and ultimately feeling his soul blasting me with love frequency is impossible to put into words. Being able to feel that safe allowed me to access the moments I closed myself off to love. They held immaculate space for me to cry, release and let go of things I had no idea I was even holding onto. Having the tantric sensual touch and breathing helped me to see how much I was deprived of it. As I moved through the lower emotions, their healing helped me to embody the feelings of deep romance and love in myself so that I can attract that in the next King I am calling in. This is the most important part of healing and manifestation and I am so grateful I got outside of my comfort zone and allowed myself to receive. I highly recommend 1 million stars for this experience, I feel so happy, alive and like my truest self.
- Margie
Days after my session, I feel deeply shifted into gentle confidence, grounded in pleasure, and, most of all, free. Sydney held such a clear space. I felt completely accepted and also playfully dared to my fullest expression. The safety and permissiveness of the container let me surrender fully. At one moment, my body released trauma and pain I have held for decades. At others, I felt the goddess shimmer through me in waves that felt intimate and familiar. Sydney’s presence never wavered. I felt utterly honored and held. His masterful offerings of sound and breath and touch created an immersive, transportive journey in which I could melt into oceanic pleasure. I feel at once excited and new, and exactly who I am. I am reminded of my power, affirmed in my trust of my body, and energized to choose my desires. I wish every woman this experience of her own bliss medicine, so she can also offer the world what her healing and worthiness creates.
- Renee
I experienced an extraordinary and transformative tantric session with Sydney Harmony. It was like stepping into a world of enchantment, akin to a profound psychedelic ceremony. The sacred space created by Sydney set the tone for the experience. It was rooted in strong/safe masculine energy, had a profound impact on me. Soul gazing and shared breathwork became a mystical dance where Sydney breathed out my burdens, replacing it with waves of pure love. As the energy flowed and my presence increased, my second chakra (womb) responded with cramping and heaviness, as my body began releasing buried pain and awakening my inner radiance. It was an otherworldly experience, I felt symptoms of having my moon without actually having it. Sydney consistently checked in on how I felt throughout the experience and hearing what was coming up for me, he acted intuitively. He did sound healing on my womb, gently touched my womb with mindful tenderness, and chanted intuitively chosen mantras that spoke to my soul. The result? Wowwww. I wholeheartedly recommend this experience to all sisters.
-Kyle
I couldn’t had asked for a better person to give me my first tantra massage; Syd guided me from start to finish; He created a comfortable and kindness-based energy for me to feel safe, welcomed and heard. He helped me connect with the universe inside and outside of myself.
I will always be grateful for the experience we created that day.
-Agos
This unconditionally loving being of pure divine presence and sacred light, Syd - certainly knows how to embody this in the most compassionate manner. The tantric massage experience was unequivocally what my heart had been seeking to be nourished with for so long. All of the five love languages were utilized beautifully. In this blissfully safe container of unconditional love, this Divine masculine Godman came through in a perfect dance of deep presence, safety, love and connection. It is truly transformative and the smoldering sensuality is nothing short of exquisite!
After the session I found myself basking in pure gratitude for the unconditional love and healing that my body, mind and soul has been deeply blessed with by this being of pure potency.
With infinite love & gratitude
- Kenna
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